I think it’s really a case of observing the way the car drives and trying different setups to see if it’s better or worse or solves a problem.
Such as , if the centre diff oil is too thin, with too much power, you would see the front wheels spin up a lot, the power is bled to the front, more so than the rear.
If this causes undesired behaviour such as not enough power to the rear to kick the back end out or pull wheelies, then go for thicker oil, but don’t overdo it otherwise you can make the vehicle hard to drive and less compliant to different traction surfaces and driving style.
The front differential oil affects the steering on and off power.
Too thin for the power level, and you may find the on power steering is lacking, pushing wide, understeering. You might see the inside front wheel spin up too much.
The rear differential oil affects how how the rear end puts the power down, too thick and it will want to spin out readily and be tricky to drive on low traction surfaces. Too thin (for the power or traction level) and the inside wheel is likely to spin up out of control and be less predictable on high traction surfaces.
To conclude, run the truck with stock diff oils, observe how it drives, bearing in mind the traction of the surfaces you are running on and your tyre choice, then tune the diffs according to how you want the vehicle to drive. Somebody who wants the vehicle to be very agile and handle neatly would generally want thinner oils, while someone who wants it to oversteer and pull stunts would want thicker oils, with the trade off being that the vehicle is likely to be harder to drive if the traction isn’t there and it may feel more ‘numb’ to drive.